There is such an emphasis on your first time having sex in society that it can be a nerve-wracking experience because of the anticipation. Overthinking can make an already stressful experience overwhelming. Saying no will feel freeing and let your partner know that you are in as in control of the experience as they are. Take a deep breath and focus on what is happening in the present.
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Most guys in America are socialized to believe that they should rack up as many sexual partners as possible. For so many men, their number of sexual partners is one of the cornerstones of their sense of masculinity. And even if you think the numbers game is silly—arguably, it is—you still probably think about it somewhere in the back of your mind. So what do you do when having sex with someone new gives you a major case of anxiety? A lot of men have to grapple with this exact challenge. You want to have and enjoy sex, but the anxiety you experience with new partners can feel crippling. You feel tons of pressure to do everything perfectly, and blow her mind from the very first moment.
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A married man of 21 years is sitting across from me in my office. His wife is horribly upset and has threatened to leave him. After a long period of silence he revealed that he engages in gay sex , softly saying, " I have had sex with men as far back as I can remember.
He plugged in his headphones, clicked on an X-rated video and took a deep breath. It was around 3am, in the summer of , and relentless fears of homosexuality had tormented him since the start of the year. It felt like everything I thought I knew about myself was falling apart.